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| Ask the Dog Trainer: Helping a Fearful Dog Posted: 05 Aug 2011 08:50 PM PDT by Michael Baugh CPDT-KA, CDBC
My wife and I have a very sweet, intelligent, food-loving, 2 year old female Rough Collie. She is great on a leash, eager to please, and generally very good in public. I grew up with Collies and am familiar with the common tendencies of the Herding Breeds, but am having trouble succeeding with some of her training. Lady gets very nervous when guests come to the house, especially strangers. She does the typical barking and herding, but also has trouble relaxing for hours when other people are in the home. She will nip at our guest incessantly when they walk around the house. I know that she has watchdog qualities, but I worry that she will snap when we have guests (especially children) over to the home. We have had her since she was 12 weeks old, and we have always had visitors. She does not seem to be adapting at all. How can we exorcise this nervous energy and enjoy having people over again. Thank you for your help! Bill H. --------------------------------------------------------------- Dear Bill: First, I commend you for asking good and thoughtful questions on Lady's behalf. I work with a lot of fearful dogs here in Texas. I also know a lot of my training colleagues work similar cases around the world. You are not alone; and yes there is hope for Lady. Despite our best efforts socializing our dogs and familiarizing them with the quirky ins and outs of the human world, sometimes it's just not enough. As our dogs grow up, we begin to notice their developing sensitivities and phobias. It's important that we address these fears intelligently and immediately, but also gently. You are correct to be concerned that fearful behavior can sometimes develop into offensive (aggressive) behavior. That doesn't always happen. Nevertheless, the time to act is now. I often recommend hiring a qualified behavior consultant at the end of my blog posts. This time, I'm recommending it up front. You don't have to do this alone, and you probably shouldn't. Use the link above to find a Certified Dog Behavior Consultant in your area. I also recommend you visit fearfuldogs.com and download the e-book, Guide to Living with and Training a Fearful Dog.
I love working with fearful dogs. Even fearful dogs who've grown into angry dogs have a special place in my heart. I adopted my dog Stella when she was 5 months old and very quickly learned there were significant deficits in her early socialization. She is a recovering fearful dog. While we entertain often and she meets lots of new people in her work with me, I still know that every new encounter with a person is a training session for her. It's Stella who taught me a valuable lesson about living with and training a fearful dog. Our relationship is the most important thing. Meeting new people is sometimes very frightening for her (It has been compared to being in a nightmare in which you have no control). It's my job to protect her, help her, and provide the tools so she can succeed. I'm her person, and I've got her back. Now it's becoming a game. When visitors roll up to t he house I call out, "here are our friends." She runs to the front door and barks. I grab the treat bag and her tennis ball. (New person = tennis ball. That's a very powerful association for Stella). It's easy to mistake this for distracting the dog. The truth is it's more than that; it's solid behavior science. I'm teaching Stella that the world is safe and wonderful despite the scary stuff. I'm happy to do it. You see, that's exactly what she does for me every day.
You may reach Michael at the link for a personal consultation, or write to him at our Ask the Dog Trainer Column @LetsAdoptaDogPark@gmail.com. Michael's advice does not replace an actual consultation with a qualified trainer.         
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